Small talk and networking: tips
In short: Small talk is casual conversation about non-committal topics that makes starting a conversation easier. Networking builds on this and creates professional or personal contacts.
In more detail: Small talk serves mainly to build rapport, not to exchange deep information.
In detail
- Topics: Weather, current events, shared surroundings as safe openers.
- Open questions: Questions requiring more than yes or no keep the conversation going.
- Listening: Show genuine interest instead of just waiting for your own turn (aktives-zuhoren-lernen).
- Body language: Open posture and smiling signal approachability (koerpersprache-verstehen).
- Networking events: Keep business cards or contact details ready.
- Following up: A short message after the first contact cements the connection.
- Boundaries: Avoid sensitive topics such as politics or salary at a first meeting.